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The Basics of Rimming:
Rimming isn’t just a matter of ‘eating out’ a nice butt. It’s about touch, heat and pleasing your bottom. By properly rimming you help them relax, which is crucial for more activity to go smoothly. I usually advise rimming BEFORE fingering for several reasons, not the least of which is it helps relax the anus making that stage of fingering much easier but NOT to be neglected. Sex that is like in porn is barely the middle of the spectrum of pleasure a good Top can make his bottom experience. I will cover several different aspects of Rimming in this lesson, and later I will discuss how to combine the two to create a more advanced technique.
Part 1: Positions to rim in.
There are several positions to rim in, the two most popular are when your bottom is on all fours, back straight and bottom fully exposed, and the other is on their back with their legs tucked upward, but really any position where your bottom is comfortable can work.
These first two positions are most useful because of where the prostate is located during the activity. On all fours, gravity is holding it in close to its normal position. On their back, the prostate is lowered slightly, almost dangling behind the inner walls and is easier to stimulate in this position. Both are equally useful, though my favorite is on their backs, because it also allows you to massage the groin around the genitals (and to a degree ignore them, but there are several reasons for that and different times to pay attention to them, right now you want them focused on their ass, so don’t jump the gun and switch centers of pleasure on them, stay focused on their ass, just like you want them to be.)
Part 2: What to do and when.
Experience is the best teacher, but some foreknowledge will help you recognize the signals your bottom can’t hide or resist telling you about. Lets take our first look at what you have to use in this situation. You have 5 tools already at your disposal on your face alone for stimulating your bottom as a Top. In order I recommend these being used and most often: Breath, Lips, Tongue,
Nose and Chin.
Breath: This ranges from a slow gentle close exhale, to a quick cooling breath across the sensitive skin of the anus. A slow deep exhale, especially with a sigh or growl from you provide audible stimulation as well as vibration through the area if you are up against the ring itself. It lets your bottom know you are enjoying eating their ass without porn dialogue, and those gentle vibrations help stimulate the internal organs you are looking forward to fucking. Breath is foreplay, and can be used to spur your bottom further or make them shiver depending on which technique you use. As a Top you also need to remember to breathe when eating so it lasts longer and so you don’t wind up passing out or having to stop. Continual contact and stimulation is the goal here.
Lips can be used to place gentle kisses, deep long kisses, slid aside to expose teeth for biting, nibbling and chewing (which I recommend to use occasionally, alternated with a cooling breath to bring maximum stimulation) and gives the bottom a genuine sensation of being eaten, which can be very arousing for some boys. Lips can also be dragged across the skin of the anus by placing your top lip above the ring, and pulling down slowly, if your lips are dry they will skid a little, which is a different sensation from the other techniques used, and can be very helpful for breaking the ice and getting to the good stuff and lead directly to the use of the tongue.
Tongue is the most obvious and the most used and useful tool as it is warm, wet and gentle even when pressed firmly against the ring of the anus, and it is the one you have the second most control over, breath being the most controlled technique. The tongue can probe through the folds of the anus, flick across the skin, or slather it up with long strokes. The tongue is by far the most effective technique for direct stimulation.
Nose has a few interesting uses to be used occasionally as counter point to the tongue. A deep inhalation of the scent, followed by a slow exhale through the mouth provides both an opportunity to catch your breath but to enhance that feeling of being eaten and for some, worshiped, and lets be honest, the scent of a butt can be VERY arousing. Another technique involves using the nose instead of a finger, and dragging it across the ring from down to up, which puts the lips in line to bite/kiss, the breath in position to exhale directly on the ring, and then the final tool is in position to be used.
The Chin can be occasionally useful and has various applications. If you are clean shaven, the chin will slide smoothly, if you have stubble, used gently this can ‘tickle’ or stimulate further blood flow into the area. A beard however long, so long as it isn’t stubble or still sticking straight out from the chin, can be used to stimulate and ‘clean up’ the spit from other techniques. The chin can also be used to drag, like the lips, but in the opposite direction. By alternating the lip drag and the chin scrape, you have a soft sensation going down and a stronger, firmer sensation going up, and once again put you in position to go right back to using your breath and tongue.
This covers the basics of Rimming for now. Part 3 is coming next, and will be covering the combination of techniques to create that advanced skill I mentioned earlier.
The Basics of Rimming:
Rimming isn’t just a matter of ‘eating out’ a nice butt. It’s about touch, heat and pleasing your bottom. By properly rimming you help them relax, which is crucial for more activity to go smoothly. I usually advise rimming BEFORE fingering for several reasons, not the least of which is it helps relax the anus making that stage of fingering much easier but NOT to be neglected. Sex that is like in porn is barely the middle of the spectrum of pleasure a good Top can make his bottom experience. I will cover several different aspects of Rimming in this lesson, and later I will discuss how to combine the two to create a more advanced technique.
Part 1: Positions to rim in.
There are several positions to rim in, the two most popular are when your bottom is on all fours, back straight and bottom fully exposed, and the other is on their back with their legs tucked upward, but really any position where your bottom is comfortable can work.
These first two positions are most useful because of where the prostate is located during the activity. On all fours, gravity is holding it in close to its normal position. On their back, the prostate is lowered slightly, almost dangling behind the inner walls and is easier to stimulate in this position. Both are equally useful, though my favorite is on their backs, because it also allows you to massage the groin around the genitals (and to a degree ignore them, but there are several reasons for that and different times to pay attention to them, right now you want them focused on their ass, so don’t jump the gun and switch centers of pleasure on them, stay focused on their ass, just like you want them to be.)
Part 2: What to do and when.
Experience is the best teacher, but some foreknowledge will help you recognize the signals your bottom can’t hide or resist telling you about. Lets take our first look at what you have to use in this situation. You have 5 tools already at your disposal on your face alone for stimulating your bottom as a Top. In order I recommend these being used and most often: Breath, Lips, Tongue,
Nose and Chin.
Breath: This ranges from a slow gentle close exhale, to a quick cooling breath across the sensitive skin of the anus. A slow deep exhale, especially with a sigh or growl from you provide audible stimulation as well as vibration through the area if you are up against the ring itself. It lets your bottom know you are enjoying eating their ass without porn dialogue, and those gentle vibrations help stimulate the internal organs you are looking forward to fucking. Breath is foreplay, and can be used to spur your bottom further or make them shiver depending on which technique you use. As a Top you also need to remember to breathe when eating so it lasts longer and so you don’t wind up passing out or having to stop. Continual contact and stimulation is the goal here.
Lips can be used to place gentle kisses, deep long kisses, slid aside to expose teeth for biting, nibbling and chewing (which I recommend to use occasionally, alternated with a cooling breath to bring maximum stimulation) and gives the bottom a genuine sensation of being eaten, which can be very arousing for some boys. Lips can also be dragged across the skin of the anus by placing your top lip above the ring, and pulling down slowly, if your lips are dry they will skid a little, which is a different sensation from the other techniques used, and can be very helpful for breaking the ice and getting to the good stuff and lead directly to the use of the tongue.
Tongue is the most obvious and the most used and useful tool as it is warm, wet and gentle even when pressed firmly against the ring of the anus, and it is the one you have the second most control over, breath being the most controlled technique. The tongue can probe through the folds of the anus, flick across the skin, or slather it up with long strokes. The tongue is by far the most effective technique for direct stimulation.
Nose has a few interesting uses to be used occasionally as counter point to the tongue. A deep inhalation of the scent, followed by a slow exhale through the mouth provides both an opportunity to catch your breath but to enhance that feeling of being eaten and for some, worshiped, and lets be honest, the scent of a butt can be VERY arousing. Another technique involves using the nose instead of a finger, and dragging it across the ring from down to up, which puts the lips in line to bite/kiss, the breath in position to exhale directly on the ring, and then the final tool is in position to be used.
The Chin can be occasionally useful and has various applications. If you are clean shaven, the chin will slide smoothly, if you have stubble, used gently this can ‘tickle’ or stimulate further blood flow into the area. A beard however long, so long as it isn’t stubble or still sticking straight out from the chin, can be used to stimulate and ‘clean up’ the spit from other techniques. The chin can also be used to drag, like the lips, but in the opposite direction. By alternating the lip drag and the chin scrape, you have a soft sensation going down and a stronger, firmer sensation going up, and once again put you in position to go right back to using your breath and tongue.
This covers the basics of Rimming for now. Part 3 is coming next, and will be covering the combination of techniques to create that advanced skill I mentioned earlier.
