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For those of an appropriate age, these pieces are interesting, providing insight into a certain
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'helpful hints' may be useful for Dads/lads and Tops/bottoms.
A Boy’s Guide to Pleasing His Daddy: Volume 6, Part 1: Using your Bottom to please Daddy
Posted on Tumblr by Ultra Boyhunter on December 27, 2013
Part 1: Getting ready to play.
Anal Sex.
Butt lovin, tube
shovin, shaft stroking backdoor sex. There are no doubt many questions
that should be addressed when talking about the ‘bottom’ of the sex
list. There are some major issues already addressed in previous lessons
(like cleanliness etc) but there are a few to bring up here that stand
out at this point. The issues of Shaved/Unshaved, of
virginity/inexperience and of being ‘too tight’. These issues are
frequent questions, and deserve to be addressed separately before we get
to the actual tips and tricks.
Shaved Vs Unshaven:
This is one question of personal taste, not only for the son but for
his Daddy too. There are many reasons why either one could be preferred,
but there are some things to consider when shaving your butt. First of
which, the best way to go about it is to have help. It’s not only an
intimate trusting moment, but can be very arousing for both people
involved. That said, shaved provides no protection there (its normally
hairy for a reason) and the hair can cushion impact and keep you a bit
warmer there. Shaved has the downside of it grows back and those stubble
phases are usually not only painful for you but also your Daddy, so you
have to either keep up with it or give up having that kind of sex for a
while as it grows back in. A shaved boy can be nice because its slick
and slippery, but an unshaven one provides almost the exact same
sensation and none of the downtime of regrowing stubble. It is easier to
rim a shaven bottom, but only to a certain degree. Some of us prefer
the feeling of chewing a fuzzy butt to a smooth one, others the reverse.
So it comes down to you and your Daddy deciding what is best for you.
Either way requires cleanliness and maintenance in one form or another
so it does ultimately come down to personal taste.
Virginity/Inexperience:
The ‘V’ card. So mystified and sanctified that it becomes a crucial
part of a boys psyche. Lets take a moment to break this down into clear
and concise terms. Virginity is a concept that really originated when a
girls virginity was the only value she had, because without it she could
not be bartered for property to a neighbor or enemy to form an
alliance. Being ‘the first’ is an antiquated concept at best, vulgar at
the worst. If the only value someone has for you is being their first
partner, then you may have other issues to deal with. If you believe, as
a boy, that your virginity is the only thing you have of value to offer
a partner, then you are dead wrong. Your first time cannot be lost by
being raped or molested. The first time you have sex with someone of
your choosing it truly is your first time, and not any other occasion.
The very first time you and your Daddy make love will always be special,
and often change how you feel about sex. Take the stigma out of
virginity, because it simply means your Daddy has a whole lot he can
teach you, not the least of which is that you are valuable without it as
well as with it. Human value should never be assessed based on a
‘status’ like Virginity because it can be ‘lost’ without meaning to,
just ask a girl. Virginity for them involves a membrane that can break
from riding a horse, bouncing in a car too hard, getting hit in the
groin, and without it their value is diminished, and in some cultures
utterly removed because her ‘character’ can be questioned because of its
absence. Boys being judged by the same measures as girls is absurd, let
alone being emotionally and psychologically traumatized by the change
of status from virgin to not. We, as a species, need to get over this
and learn to disregard rules that do not apply, like virginity,
especially when it comes to gay boys. Your inexperience, as said before,
is not a detriment if you allow your Daddy to show you how and are
patient and determined in your ‘lessons’ from him.
Too Tight to F*ck:
Well, this one is tricky. I’ve known many who were very tight but with
application of the previous lessons, should have no trouble relaxing and
being able to accept what is happening back there. There may also be
certain psychological concerns when dealing with being ‘too tight’
because you may be resisting it because you expect too much pain or are
attempting to prevent the very thing you are wanting to happen. This can
be resolved however with relaxation, massage, breathing, meditation,
and a little practice. If its easy for you, a single finger (pinkie to
start) and just sit there for a while. Breathe slowly, relax then being
moving the finger in small circles. If that is not possible, then
purchase a very small thing masturbatory tool like a butt plug or a
dildo. Do NOT force these things in, relax, start small and work your
way up once you are comfortable using them. Slowly increase the diameter
and length until you are at least working something the size of two to
three fingers put together and the length of 5-6 inches. That should be
enough to help prepare yourself for anything that size or slightly
bigger.
The Basics:
From
previous anatomy lessons you and your Daddy should know where different
parts are, so rather than covering them again, I will assume you did
your homework and learned where they were. Cheeks, Rim/Ring and prostate
are the three big ones for your pleasure as a bottom, but also for
pleasing your Daddy. I will cover some exercises you can do (two simple
ones have huge effects on various parts of your soft muscle groups that
control erection and tightness, and can amplify pleasure) and a few
basic considerations before attempting anal sex.
First Up: Pelvic Floor Muscle Training. (source
http://www.everybody.co.nz )
How do I know what muscles to tighten?
The
first step is to correctly identify the muscles. Sit comfortably - your
thighs, buttocks and tummy muscles should be relaxed. Lift and squeeze
inside as if you are trying to hold back urine, or wind from the back
passage.
If you are unable to feel a definite squeeze and
lift action of your pelvic floor, don’t worry. Even people with very
weak muscles can be taught these exercises.
If you feel
unsure whether you have identified the correct muscles, try to stop your
flow when passing urine, then restart it. Only do this to identify the
correct muscles to use - this is a test, NOT an exercise.
If
you are unable to feel a definite tighten and lift action in your pelvic
floor muscles you should seek professional advice.
How do I start pelvic floor muscle training program?
At
first you may need to perform these exercises while sitting. As the
muscles strengthen you can progress to exercise standing up. Like any
activity, start with what you can achieve and progress from there.
Remember to use your muscles whenever you exert yourself during your
daily activities.
If you can feel the muscles working, exercise them by:
1.
Squeezing/ tightening and drawing in and up around both your anus (back
passage) and urethra (bladder outlet). Lift up inside and try to hold
this contraction strongly for as long as you can (1 - 10 seconds). Keep
breathing! Now release and relax. You should have a definite feeling of
letting go.
2. Rest 10 - 20 seconds - repeat Step 1, and remember
it is important to rest. If you find it easy to hold, try to hold
longer and repeat as many as you are able. Work towards 12 long, strong
holds.
3. Now try 5 - 10 short, fast strong contractions.
do NOT hold your breath
do NOT push down instead of squeeze and lift
do NOT pull your tummy in tightly
do NOT tighten your buttocks and thighs.
Try
to set aside 5 - 10 minutes in your day for this exercise routine, and
remember, quality is important. A few good contractions are more
beneficial than many half-hearted ones and good results take time and
effort. Remember to use the muscles when you need them most. That is,
always tighten before you cough, sneeze, lift, bend, get up out of a
chair, etc.
Now that we have covered how the exercises
are done here are some reasons why you want to do them regularly. These
exercises have additional benefits for men, like being able to sustain
an erection for longer, improving your ejaculation/orgasm contractions,
helping with bowel control and regularity and so on. The benefits of
these should make them a must have for a daily health routine.
Practicing this control method and strengthening your pelvic
wall allows you to contract around your partner and with practice
create a wavelike motion of muscle around them while they are inside
you. The famous ‘snapping pussy’ trick involves the use of these little
understood muscles. They are a Good boys best friend and a Daddy’s
favorite glove to slip into. Before attempting anal sex
for the first time or if inexperienced, be sure to check in with your
partner as you go along. Be sure it is something you both want to do,
and are both willing to be patient at the start while things become
loose enough for full penetration.
