The following is part of a series of, "Lessons from Daddy," posted on TUMBLR by, 'Ultra Boyhunter'
THIS DADDY has no idea if this or any of the other writings are original and claims no ownership
of anything written in this series. THIS DADDY doesn't agree with some of the
terminology used (the term, Son, for example) and the content does not necessarily represent the views of THIS
DADDY or, 'Buck Up, Princess.'
The content, as posted on the Ultra Boyhunter blog, contains videos and images which are not appropriate for readers under 18 (21 in AL, MS, NE, WY, and any other location where 18 is not the age of majority). Those videos and images are not included on, "Buck Up, Princess" and it is recommended that anybody not of legal age not visit the Ultra Boyhunter blog itself.
For those of an appropriate age, these pieces are interesting, providing insight into a certain form of intergenerational relationship. Some of the 'helpful hints' may be useful for Dads/lads and Tops/bottoms.
A Boy’s Guide to Pleasing His Daddy: Volume 2
Posted on Tumblr by Ultra Boyhunter on December 26, 2013
In the previous installment I covered a wealth of knowledge about giving pleasure and receiving it from your Daddy. I will not be covering those points again, you will have to do the homework and read them. Here begins as deep an instruction as can be provided via the internet. As always, these lessons when applied, become more valuable with practice and patience. From here on out, the difference between Daddies becomes VERY important. I’ve said it time and time again that each person is unique and different from others. As a result, the differences in intimacy and pleasuring each other become further apart. I will cover some basics, as well as approach variations of technique and perhaps a little style in these lessons. While every trick will not work on every Daddy, a Good boy knows to persevere and to learn to adapt.
Intimacy
This is not approaching ‘heavy’ petting as discussed in previous lessons, but instead if focused on the ‘pre’ and ‘post’ game activities. This is where you get to show off how Good a boy you are without sexual activity. An example is this: In my house, my son comes down in the morning and the first thing he does is give me a kiss. Groggy, half asleep or showered and bright eyed, the very first thing he does is give me a kiss and say “good morning Daddy”. We never part company, even if just going out of the room when reasonable and when there is time away from each other involved, without saying I love you to each other and we never EVER part in anger. The closeness of a Dad/son relationship can be as close or closer than ours, or as distant in the opposite ways. We prefer an emotional as well as physical level of intimacy that may be uncomfortable for some people.
Getting to know each other is important, especially when it comes to intimacy, which can and is often different from sexual intimacy. Some people have a very hard time being emotionally close to someone, even if they have sex with them, other times it’s just about the sex and domination/submission. The spectrum ranges over a wide variety of things in this arena. Trial and error and experience help determine the boundaries. Some good activities to encourage intimacy are physical closeness without sexual activity. As a boy, it is a double edged sword to want to rest your head in Daddy’s lap and have him stroke your head as you lay there. It can be very risky, or very much a tease. The choice is yours to make. Things like Snuggling up into your Daddy’s arm as you two sit on the couch watching television or music, sitting between his knees and resting your head on them while you talk to him helps for that feeling of closeness. Be comfortable in any position you can find yourself wanting to be closer to him that he is comfortable or willing to let you be in. Always respect boundaries and rules in your relationship.
Kissing: There are three basic kisses. The ‘soft peck’ kiss, the ‘firm long kiss’ and the ‘deep kiss’. The soft peck is the most casual, not the least important however. It shows a desire to give affection without forcing an intimate moment to start. The firm long kiss shows more of this but runs a much higher risk of causing arousal of one or both partners. The Deep Kiss, is long, slow usually involves some tongue action and heavier petting. This one is pretty much a Green Light for sex. Knowing which and when to use can be very useful. A light peck in the morning, a firm kiss upon parting and a deep kiss when passion is called for are great ways to vary your kissing habits. Don’t always dive for the tongue (not everyone likes that) and don’t assume that Daddy is going to let you get away with a peck on the cheek in the morning. A good kiss is not entirely passive either, but follow your Daddy’s lead when it comes to these things and he will show you how he likes to be kissed, and will learn how you like to be kissed.
Cuddling: This one is pretty simple sounding but doing it well takes practice. When curled up next to Daddy on the couch, wrap an arm over his chest and keep the lower arm along your side as putting it behind him might make him uncomfortable. In bed, be willing to change positions, don’t expect to always be the ‘cudlee’ as some Daddy’s love feeling their boy snuggled up behind them with their arms around hugging him like a teddy bear. The same is true in the other direction. Allow your Daddy to be as close as you are both comfortable when laying down together. I sleep with one arm under my sons pillow and the other wrapped around him pulling him close to me at night so he is pressed lengthwise along my body. I even tuck my feet under his so they are on top of mine, and his knees bent slightly so he feels that closeness. When I lay on my back, my son will curl up beside me and rest his head on my chest, which allows my arm that was under him to hold him around back, while the other hand comes over to grip the other one as a hug around him as he nuzzles into my chest hair. Being a Good boy, he never misses a chance to snuggle.
Appreciation: This part goes both ways, as most of these lessons truly do, and extends beyond previous lessons into a few special areas. Your Daddy not only needs to feel and see that you appreciate him, but he needs to hear it. Like you need to hear that you are a Good boy, Daddy needs to feel appreciated AS your Daddy. The role of Daddy can be very serious for some of us, and as such we like hearing things like “Thank you Daddy” or “I’m the luckiest boy because I have you as a Daddy’. These also give him a chance to appreciate you too. This needs to go beyond simply not rolling over and snoring after sex, or even cuddling. There needs to be more mutual appreciation shown following the ‘roles and rules’ of the relationship. Nothing makes a boy feel safer than having Daddy’s arms wrapped around him as he falls asleep, and there is little better for me as a Daddy to know that my son feels perfectly safe, content and comfortable in my arms. Appreciation is something that should also not be neglected out of bed as well, and by making gratitude, appreciation and respect part of your relationship with Daddy you bring yourself closer to him.
Posted on Tumblr by Ultra Boyhunter on December 26, 2013
In the previous installment I covered a wealth of knowledge about giving pleasure and receiving it from your Daddy. I will not be covering those points again, you will have to do the homework and read them. Here begins as deep an instruction as can be provided via the internet. As always, these lessons when applied, become more valuable with practice and patience. From here on out, the difference between Daddies becomes VERY important. I’ve said it time and time again that each person is unique and different from others. As a result, the differences in intimacy and pleasuring each other become further apart. I will cover some basics, as well as approach variations of technique and perhaps a little style in these lessons. While every trick will not work on every Daddy, a Good boy knows to persevere and to learn to adapt.
Intimacy
This is not approaching ‘heavy’ petting as discussed in previous lessons, but instead if focused on the ‘pre’ and ‘post’ game activities. This is where you get to show off how Good a boy you are without sexual activity. An example is this: In my house, my son comes down in the morning and the first thing he does is give me a kiss. Groggy, half asleep or showered and bright eyed, the very first thing he does is give me a kiss and say “good morning Daddy”. We never part company, even if just going out of the room when reasonable and when there is time away from each other involved, without saying I love you to each other and we never EVER part in anger. The closeness of a Dad/son relationship can be as close or closer than ours, or as distant in the opposite ways. We prefer an emotional as well as physical level of intimacy that may be uncomfortable for some people.
Getting to know each other is important, especially when it comes to intimacy, which can and is often different from sexual intimacy. Some people have a very hard time being emotionally close to someone, even if they have sex with them, other times it’s just about the sex and domination/submission. The spectrum ranges over a wide variety of things in this arena. Trial and error and experience help determine the boundaries. Some good activities to encourage intimacy are physical closeness without sexual activity. As a boy, it is a double edged sword to want to rest your head in Daddy’s lap and have him stroke your head as you lay there. It can be very risky, or very much a tease. The choice is yours to make. Things like Snuggling up into your Daddy’s arm as you two sit on the couch watching television or music, sitting between his knees and resting your head on them while you talk to him helps for that feeling of closeness. Be comfortable in any position you can find yourself wanting to be closer to him that he is comfortable or willing to let you be in. Always respect boundaries and rules in your relationship.
Kissing: There are three basic kisses. The ‘soft peck’ kiss, the ‘firm long kiss’ and the ‘deep kiss’. The soft peck is the most casual, not the least important however. It shows a desire to give affection without forcing an intimate moment to start. The firm long kiss shows more of this but runs a much higher risk of causing arousal of one or both partners. The Deep Kiss, is long, slow usually involves some tongue action and heavier petting. This one is pretty much a Green Light for sex. Knowing which and when to use can be very useful. A light peck in the morning, a firm kiss upon parting and a deep kiss when passion is called for are great ways to vary your kissing habits. Don’t always dive for the tongue (not everyone likes that) and don’t assume that Daddy is going to let you get away with a peck on the cheek in the morning. A good kiss is not entirely passive either, but follow your Daddy’s lead when it comes to these things and he will show you how he likes to be kissed, and will learn how you like to be kissed.
Cuddling: This one is pretty simple sounding but doing it well takes practice. When curled up next to Daddy on the couch, wrap an arm over his chest and keep the lower arm along your side as putting it behind him might make him uncomfortable. In bed, be willing to change positions, don’t expect to always be the ‘cudlee’ as some Daddy’s love feeling their boy snuggled up behind them with their arms around hugging him like a teddy bear. The same is true in the other direction. Allow your Daddy to be as close as you are both comfortable when laying down together. I sleep with one arm under my sons pillow and the other wrapped around him pulling him close to me at night so he is pressed lengthwise along my body. I even tuck my feet under his so they are on top of mine, and his knees bent slightly so he feels that closeness. When I lay on my back, my son will curl up beside me and rest his head on my chest, which allows my arm that was under him to hold him around back, while the other hand comes over to grip the other one as a hug around him as he nuzzles into my chest hair. Being a Good boy, he never misses a chance to snuggle.
Appreciation: This part goes both ways, as most of these lessons truly do, and extends beyond previous lessons into a few special areas. Your Daddy not only needs to feel and see that you appreciate him, but he needs to hear it. Like you need to hear that you are a Good boy, Daddy needs to feel appreciated AS your Daddy. The role of Daddy can be very serious for some of us, and as such we like hearing things like “Thank you Daddy” or “I’m the luckiest boy because I have you as a Daddy’. These also give him a chance to appreciate you too. This needs to go beyond simply not rolling over and snoring after sex, or even cuddling. There needs to be more mutual appreciation shown following the ‘roles and rules’ of the relationship. Nothing makes a boy feel safer than having Daddy’s arms wrapped around him as he falls asleep, and there is little better for me as a Daddy to know that my son feels perfectly safe, content and comfortable in my arms. Appreciation is something that should also not be neglected out of bed as well, and by making gratitude, appreciation and respect part of your relationship with Daddy you bring yourself closer to him.
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