The following is part of a series of, "Lessons from Daddy," posted on TUMBLR by, 'Ultra Boyhunter'
THIS DADDY has no idea if this or any of the other writings are original and claims no ownership
of anything written in this series. THIS DADDY doesn't agree with some of the
terminology used (the term, Son, for example) and the content does not necessarily represent the views of THIS
DADDY or, 'Buck Up, Princess.'
The content, as posted on the Ultra Boyhunter blog, contains videos and images which are not appropriate for readers under 18 (21 in AL, MS, NE, WY, and any other location where 18 is not the age of majority). Those videos and images are not included on, "Buck Up, Princess" and it is recommended that anybody not of legal age not visit the Ultra Boyhunter blog itself.
For those of an appropriate age, these pieces are interesting, providing insight into a certain form of intergenerational relationship. Some of the 'helpful hints' may be useful for Dads/lads and Tops/bottoms.
Posted on Tumblr by Ultra Boyhunter on December 26, 2013
These are some basic pointers for a Good boy when dealing with Daddy.
The first and most important thing for a Good boy is to want, no need, Daddy’s approval and his pleasure and to show that he does.As the boy, your desire to please, and pleasure your Daddy, is a key tool in achieving that very goal. His touch is one way he can show his pleasure, and approval, to you and it’s a prefect opportunity to respond in kind. Gently holding the side of your face, the back of your neck, putting his hand in the small of your back, or anywhere he wants to touch. These moments are your chance to respond with or without words. Smile, press your face into the hand, nuzzle the hand that’s touching you, show genuine appreciation for your Daddy at times like that especially. He is reaching out to touch you for a reason,accept and enjoy that fact. Your pleasure in what you are doing can become a very powerful tool to make him even happier. Some Daddies respond VERY strongly to sounds, like whimpers, moans, groans and sighs. Even things like giggling and laughter can bring pleasure to your Daddy. Ultimately only you will get to know your Daddy, and that takes time.
Second would be some basic behaviors. A Good boy has many responsibilities, including being on his best behavior at all times. When Daddy asks a question or decides to instruct, reply ‘Yes, Daddy’ and do your best to do as he has instructed.If you are having trouble doing something be honest with Daddy, and especially when he asks you something. “Thank you Daddy” is a good thing to remember as appreciation, respect and consideration are important features of a Good Boy. When he gives a direct instruction, follow as quickly and accurately as possible. It may not always be easy, but that could also be the point, to see how dedicated you are to what you are doing.Try hard, and when you need to, ask him for help. That can take the form of his hands guiding your head, holding your hips or hands, or anything else so he teaches you exactly how to do it. Ask if you are doing it right, doing a good job , or even ‘am I being a Good boy Daddy?’. Your ability to be honest, and to earnestly seek his approval as mentioned before is a key element that will be repeated throughout these lessons.
Third would be some basic skills: As previous lessons I have written have instructed (a Good boy reads his homework, even if he doesn’t understand how it applies to him Moans Finger Rim Combo) you have a basic knowledge of anatomy, response and pleasure thresholds and methods of responding to those factors. These guides can show you how Daddy wants to give you pleasure, how to respond appropriately and more importantly to this lesson how to give that pleasure to your Daddy. An erection is only one way to tell if your Daddy is enjoying what you are doing, but you need more than that. The difference between a random cocksucker and his boy is that you belong where you are, where he has placed you and shown he trusts you to be. It’s not simply a matter of obedience, as the previous lessons discussed, it is that you need to be there. It makes you truly happy that he enjoys what you do, and that he loves and trusts you enough to let you do it. I highly recommend each boy reads my lessons on fingering, rimming and especially the moans. These are instructions on how to not only make your Daddy desire you, but to show him pleasure he may never have experienced with anyone before, moving you from a Good boy to “Best Boy”, which is a coveted place for a boy. You know what Daddy can make you feel, and your desire to bring that out of him too is what will give you the determination needed to reach for that goal.
Fourth: Self Control. While this is a basic skill and a behavior set it deserves its own entry. Self-control for a boy is reflected in his ability to hold off the desire to pleasure himself (this is why some people use chastity devices, to deny that urge entirely) and his ability to follow instructions. Depending on the age and experience of your Daddy he may have had many more years at this and more hours than you, so his guidance and instruction should be followed. There are some positions that are not easy to master for a boy, because they can cause extreme stimulation, but they are worth putting certain things aside for a time. When a boy is given instructions that are counter to his immediate gratification he should obey them, there are good reasons for them, but having to stop and explain everything can ruin a mood. Ask questions, but at the right time. Being able to control yourself, your desire and your curiosity for a time are crucial skills. If you ask questions constantly, you may ruin the mood or worse, you might miss swallowing that load you worked so hard for. Keep your mind on your task and your eyes on the prize. What you want will come to you, especially if you are a good boy and follow these basic guidelines. Daddy still decides how and when, but that’s his job because its what you want him to do. You need him to want to give you pleasure, and these basic steps bring you one step closer to that goal. More will follow later. Your thoughts are welcomed, so if you have anything to add or respond to, feel free to use ask, fan mail or which ever suits you. You may also reply to this post since I will ask a question at the end.
Who thinks this will help them be a Good boy for Daddy?
Just one question is this relationship a complete slave and master one? Coz it sounds like it.
ReplyDeleteIn some situations, it can be.
DeleteI need these lessons to be daddy's best boy. He better not have any other boys though anyways
ReplyDeleteThis is helpful lol.
ReplyDeleteMy Daddy doesn't like it when I ask him questions at all, he said its a complete and total turn off, he also said he doesn't like when I refer to myself as a good boy. I don't know what to do..
ReplyDeleteThat Daddy is broken. You need a new one.
DeleteSeriously, he doesn't seem to seek a 'boy,' rather he seeks a slave. If that is the case, then, he isn't a, 'Daddy,' rather he is a Master. Nothing wrong with that. But if you seek to be a boy, not a slave, then there is a disconnect in your relationship which cannot be resolved.
ReplyDeleteOr, perhaps just an older guy who likes sex with younger guys who'd be an a**hole to anybody he might date.
At least, that is what THIS DADDY thinks.
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ReplyDeleteI must respectfully disagree with, 'Unknown' in the post dated, May 18, 2016 at 4:53 PM, in which he/she states, "In some situations, it can be."
ReplyDeletePlease see the series of posts from December, 2014 titled, 'Is a Daddy/Lad Relationship the Same is a Master/Slave Relationship?'
To me, one of the major differences between Daddy/lad and Master/slave relationships is the perceived connection between such practices and their inclusion in what are counted as 'leather' play. Daddy/lad relationships are as old as time. To me they are as natural and should be as healthy and fulfilling as any romantic relationship. While there is a 'play' component, the scope of the relationship is broader and more organic and is what comes most naturally to guys who seek out relationships of this nature.
In response to the original source material (links to that material are provided as part of the series described above) a writer called, 'Just a Newt', posted a comment which reads in part, " A boy is told what to do. A slave does what he's told." - Larry Burden, Avatar LA
It seems to be an emphasis on mentorship vs. an emphasis on servitude, essentially."
I agree with this sentiment. A 'Daddy' advises, mentors, supports, gives opinions, with the understanding that the 'boy' may or may not choose to accept this input. Whereas a 'Master' gives orders and requires obedience.
My daddy calls me a good pup now thanks a lot!! ^0^
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