A Boy’s Guide to Pleasing His Daddy: Volume 6, Part 1

The following is part of a series of, "Lessons from Daddy," posted on TUMBLR by, 'Ultra Boyhunter'

THIS DADDY has no idea if this or any of the other writings are original and claims no ownership of anything written in this series. THIS DADDY doesn't agree with some of the terminology used (the term, Son, for example) and the content does not necessarily  represent the views of THIS DADDY or, 'Buck Up, Princess.'  

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For those of an appropriate age, these pieces are interesting, providing insight into a certain form of intergenerational relationship. Some of the 'helpful hints' may be useful for Dads/lads and Tops/bottoms.

A Boy’s Guide to Pleasing His Daddy: Volume 6, Part 1: Using your Bottom to please Daddy
Posted on Tumblr by Ultra Boyhunter on December 27, 2013

Part 1: Getting ready to play.
Anal Sex.

Butt lovin, tube shovin, shaft stroking backdoor sex. There are no doubt many questions that should be addressed when talking about the ‘bottom’ of the sex list. There are some major issues already addressed in previous lessons (like cleanliness etc) but there are a few to bring up here that stand out at this point. The issues of Shaved/Unshaved, of virginity/inexperience and of being ‘too tight’. These issues are frequent questions, and deserve to be addressed separately before we get to the actual tips and tricks.

Shaved Vs Unshaven: This is one question of personal taste, not only for the son but for his Daddy too. There are many reasons why either one could be preferred, but there are some things to consider when shaving your butt. First of which, the best way to go about it is to have help. It’s not only an intimate trusting moment, but can be very arousing for both people involved. That said, shaved provides no protection there (its normally hairy for a reason) and the hair can cushion impact and keep you a bit warmer there. Shaved has the downside of it grows back and those stubble phases are usually not only painful for you but also your Daddy, so you have to either keep up with it or give up having that kind of sex  for a while as it grows back in. A shaved boy can be nice because its slick and slippery, but an unshaven one provides almost the exact same sensation and none of the downtime of regrowing stubble. It is easier to rim a shaven bottom, but only to a certain degree. Some of us prefer the feeling of chewing a fuzzy butt to a smooth one, others the reverse. So it comes down to you and your Daddy deciding what is best for you. Either way requires cleanliness and maintenance in one form or another so it does ultimately come down to personal taste.

Virginity/Inexperience:  The ‘V’ card. So mystified and sanctified that it becomes a crucial part of a boys psyche. Lets take a moment to break this down into clear and concise terms. Virginity is a concept that really originated when a girls virginity was the only value she had, because without it she could not be bartered for property to a neighbor or enemy to form an alliance. Being ‘the first’ is an antiquated concept at best, vulgar at the worst. If the only value someone has for you is being their first partner, then you may have other issues to deal with. If you believe, as a boy, that your virginity is the only thing you have of value to offer a partner, then you are dead wrong. Your first time cannot be lost by being raped or molested. The first time you have sex with someone of your choosing it truly is your first time, and not any other occasion. The very first time you and your Daddy make love will always be special, and often change how you feel about sex. Take the stigma out of virginity, because it simply means your Daddy has a whole lot he can teach you, not the least of which is that you are valuable without it as well as with it. Human value should never be assessed based on  a ‘status’ like Virginity because it can be ‘lost’ without meaning to, just ask a girl. Virginity for them involves a membrane that can break from riding a horse, bouncing in a car too hard, getting hit in the groin, and without it their value is diminished, and in some cultures utterly removed because her ‘character’ can be questioned because of its absence. Boys being judged by the same measures as girls is absurd, let alone being emotionally and psychologically traumatized by the change of status from virgin to not. We, as a species, need to get over this and learn to disregard rules that do not apply, like virginity, especially when it comes to gay boys. Your inexperience, as said before, is not a detriment if you allow your Daddy to show you how and are patient and determined in your ‘lessons’ from him.

Too Tight to F*ck: Well, this one is tricky. I’ve known many who were very tight but with application of the previous lessons, should have no trouble relaxing and being able to accept what is happening back there. There may also be certain psychological concerns when dealing with being ‘too tight’ because you may be resisting it because you expect too much pain or are attempting to prevent the very thing you are wanting to happen. This can be resolved however with relaxation, massage, breathing, meditation, and a little practice. If its easy for you, a single finger (pinkie to start) and just sit there for a while. Breathe slowly, relax then being moving the finger in small circles. If that is not possible, then purchase a very small thing masturbatory tool like a butt plug or a dildo. Do NOT force these things in, relax, start small and work your way up once you are comfortable using them. Slowly increase the diameter and length until you are at least working something the size of two to three fingers put together and the length of 5-6 inches. That should be enough to help prepare yourself for anything that size or slightly bigger.

The Basics:
From previous anatomy lessons you and your Daddy should know where different parts are, so rather than covering them again, I will assume you did your homework and learned where they were. Cheeks, Rim/Ring and prostate are the three big ones for your pleasure as a bottom, but also for pleasing your Daddy. I will cover some exercises  you can do (two simple ones have huge effects on various parts of your soft muscle groups that control erection and tightness, and can amplify pleasure) and a few basic considerations before attempting anal sex.

First Up: Pelvic Floor Muscle Training.  (source http://www.everybody.co.nz )

How do I know what muscles to tighten?

The first step is to correctly identify the muscles. Sit comfortably - your thighs, buttocks and tummy muscles should be relaxed. Lift and squeeze inside as if you are trying to hold back urine, or wind from the back passage.

    If you are unable to feel a definite squeeze and lift action of your pelvic floor, don’t worry. Even people with very weak muscles can be taught these exercises.

    If you feel unsure whether you have identified the correct muscles, try to stop your flow when passing urine, then restart it. Only do this to identify the correct muscles to use - this is a test, NOT an exercise.

    If you are unable to feel a definite tighten and lift action in your pelvic floor muscles you should seek professional advice.

How do I start pelvic floor muscle training program?

At first you may need to perform these exercises while sitting. As the muscles strengthen you can progress to exercise standing up. Like any activity, start with what you can achieve and progress from there. Remember to use your muscles whenever you exert yourself during your daily activities.

If you can feel the muscles working, exercise them by:

1. Squeezing/ tightening and drawing in and up around both your anus (back passage) and urethra (bladder outlet). Lift up inside and try to hold this contraction strongly for as long as you can (1 - 10 seconds). Keep breathing! Now release and relax. You should have a definite feeling of letting go.

2. Rest 10 - 20 seconds - repeat Step 1, and remember it is important to rest. If you find it easy to hold, try to hold longer and repeat as many as you are able. Work towards 12 long, strong holds.

3. Now try 5 - 10 short, fast strong contractions.

    do NOT hold your breath

    do NOT push down instead of squeeze and lift

    do NOT pull your tummy in tightly

    do NOT tighten your buttocks and thighs.

Try to set aside 5 - 10 minutes in your day for this exercise routine, and remember, quality is important. A few good contractions are more beneficial than many half-hearted ones and good results take time and effort. Remember to use the muscles when you need them most. That is, always tighten before you cough, sneeze, lift, bend, get up out of a chair, etc.

Now that we have covered how the exercises are done here are some reasons why you want to do them regularly. These exercises have additional benefits for men, like being able to sustain an erection for longer, improving your ejaculation/orgasm contractions, helping with bowel control and regularity and so on. The benefits of these should make them a must have for a daily health routine.
Practicing this control method and strengthening your pelvic wall allows you to contract around your partner and with practice create a wavelike motion of muscle around them while they are inside you. The famous ‘snapping pussy’ trick involves the use of these little understood muscles. They are a Good boys best friend and a Daddy’s favorite glove to slip into. Before attempting anal sex for the first time or if inexperienced, be sure to check in with your partner as you go along. Be sure it is something you both want to do, and are both willing to be patient at the start while things become loose enough for full penetration.